Dweck is sited a number of times...
I enjoyed the definition of motivation (by Dweck) as not only a desire to achieve but also 'the love of learning, the love of challenge and the ability to thrive on obstacles'. Instilling this to our poppets is one of our biggest barriers I think - merely being a passive model of it is not doing the job for our lot!
I have been thinking about the observation that boys more likely attribute failures to a lack of effort and successes to ability - whereas girls attribute successes to effort and failures to lack of ability.
In our poppets the link to self esteem is more even across the board and not just limited to gender. In my experience here failure impacts confidence in our girls and esteem in our boys.
Clarke's "fixed mindset' quiz was administered to us. In brief it highlights our own beliefs in our intelligence (e.g. do we think intelligence is fixed or can it change over time) - I am of the opinion it can change (I think this means I have a 'growth' mindset. This is my opinion because I remember a time when I was most definitely of a 'fixed' mindset - and I believed that my failures defined me and I was them rather than the belief I have now that they are problems to be faced, dealt with and most importantly, learnt from.
"High self-esteem happens for those with a growth mindset when they are using their abilities to the fullest in something they value (ME: Deep) rather than showing that they are better than someone else (ME: surface)."
Thankfully the reading lists some strategies for developing a growth mindset (for everyone).
- Active modelling - emphasising the process of learning.
- Actively teaching (and having the expectation) that intelligence can be developed.
- Re-languaging 'can't', 'difficulty' and 'problem' with 'challenge'.
- Emphasing our own excitement at new challenges.
- Activitely teach strategies for dealing with challenge (p. 23 of the reading)
Specific, repetitive, deliberate and systematic use of these things ensure that challenges and effort are things that enhance self-esteem rather than threaten it.
Big message in the reading - Praising effort and achievement rather than ability or personal attributes is vital!
Many things we say to our students (and children) have hidden messages
e.g. 'You learned that so quickly! You're so clever' = If I don't learn something quickly I'm not clever
Thankfully I have already thought deeply about my comments to students and even recharged again recently due to the Incredible Years programme (which is amazing!). One of the strategies from that is to take pleasing the teacher out of comments and be factual, putting onus back on the students where it belongs.
'Well done, that is a beautiful rainbow, especially the way you have worked so carefully at blending the colours,'
Resilience, resourcefulness, reflectiveness and reciprocity <--- appropriate at all our ages.
Exercising your learning muscles came from this article.
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